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Surviving Separation: F@#K! Where did all my money go?

Separation is brutal no matter what, but having to add the government into the mix makes everything so much more unpleasant. 

In the grand scheme of things, my divorce has been mild in comparison to the horror stories I’ve heard. To start, we never had kids or bought a home together. These two things alone take the separation from a 10 to about a 5 on the Richter scale of emotional upheaval. 

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Surviving Separation : Just because you miss him

Today I am missing my ex-husband. 

I’m not missing our home, I’m not missing going out to dinner with him, and I’m certainly not missing the loneliness I felt for most of our relationship. 

No, today I am missing the comfort of his love. 

Surviving Separation: The ways we cope

My soon-to-be-ex husband went out of town this week for work and said that I could come by the apartment to get the last of my things while he was away. I hadn’t been back to ‘our’ home in over a month. I went over right after nightfall to avoid an awkward neighbor run-in and immediately felt a sense of unease when I pulled into the complex.